Perception of Communication

I recently attended the UK’s very first Paracon up in Derby where I delivered my presentation on the ‘Perception of Communication’. For those of you that know me I’m not a public speaker, so this opportunity wasn’t just something to help me face my fear of public speaking, but also a chance to speak about the subject that I am very passionate about.

Following on from Paracon UK 2014 and for your viewing pleasure, please feel free to check out my presentation by playing the video below. This is pretty much a rough cut, so apologies for sound quality.

Also, the guy on stage that stutters and almost falls over most of his words, is me.

Please let me know what you think or if you wish to know more? Thank you for watching.


Paracon UK 2014 – After the dust has settled!

Paracon UK 2014

How can I start this post? The words really do escape me on several levels! Let’s try ‘Wow’!!

Like any good story, lets start at the beginning. Well when I say the beginning I mean the beginning of the weekend, after all if I was to step back to when I first got involved in Paracon UK we would be heading back several months. Then we would have to navigate through those months on the run up to Paracon UK, through the changes, the tough days, the negativity and fear of failure. However, as you all now know, all that was insignificant as the weekend has come and gone now! Paracon UK was without doubt a massive success, I have not encountered one individual with something negative to say about the weekend. The team delivered a professional event which created a definitive platform for the paranormal. It’s for this reason the Paracon UK Team can take breath and pat themselves on the back for the hard work they have done for charity and the paranormal community.

My weekend was supposed to start on Saturday morning, but as an individual passionate about paranormal unity and the Paracon UK platform I offered my assistance early to Matt Hall, heading up to Derby on Friday night.

I think I managed to arrive around ten o’clock thanks to the traffic, but literally walked through the doors bumped into some friends from Swanage that I have worked with before, my weekend was off and running. I spent the next half hour or so discussing some aspects of my presentation and general spiritually related elements of the paranormal over-nice beverage, thank you to the guys from the Royal Oak, Swanage.

It wasn’t long before I found Matt, Randy, Anthony and the team. They were already setting up and working at military efficiency. In fact it was pretty amazing to watch and I was beginning to feel a loose end! However it wasn’t long before myself, Viv and the RAPS guys created a very important assembly line which had us busy for hours.

Suffice to say we continued to help Matt and the US Military guys all the way to 4am when we went to bed, but at this point Matt was still going. In fact I am not entirely sure if Matt did sleep over the weekend?

We were back on the floor just before 7am and some final touches as the doors opened to the Vendors.

Vendor Area at Paracon UK
Vendor Area at Paracon UK

With that and an announcement from Matt Hall, Day One was well under way. Paracon UK began to bustle, individuals and groups began to speak to converse on their favourite subjects and the Guest Speakers began to share. This wasn’t just about a bunch of people interested in the paranormal, it was more than that, it was a true community beginning to form.

My Saturday was taken up with varied tasks. I had many friends attending Paracon, from mediums to researchers, which had me engaging in various conversations regarding the paranormal, far too many even mention here. I did have a stall in the Vendor area, the one with the weird Box thing.

The Box
The Box

Which reminds me, in regards to the Box, if you have any ideas about the Box fire them over please? Still the stall was opposite the RSVP UK stall which had a cool Date Logger they are developing on it, give them a shout to know more. There were so many more stalls too, Sage Paranormal, RAPS, Brian J Cano, Amy Goodwin and Carmen Reed too. The best thing was that Paracon UK wasn’t simply about the spiritual or the scientific, there was a fantastic balance of all approaches. Which also made it an amazing place to simply learn something new or perhaps question something different.

I have to say I enjoyed meeting our US guests and as I am an honest guy, I have to say they each surpass my personal expectations. Thank you guys for making the trip to join us at the first Paracon UK. I hope to see you next year.

To be honest I could probably continue for ages with my account of the Paracon UK event, but time is against me I’m afraid. Let’s take this as an overview and perhaps I will post some more specific posts in the near future.

The weekend brought me and some great friends together, many of which I have worked with before on investigations/experiments. I also managed to meet face to face with many many friends from the vast online world we often meet in. That was something which I thoroughly enjoyed, that weird moment when you manage to shake the hand or hug someone you’ve connected with and discussed so much of the paranormal with.

Saturday night closed with an awesome Paranormal Roundtable, where many various subjects were in the paranormal field were discussed without prejudice. This was an awesome experience for me as I was situated quietly at one end, yes quietly as my slightly polite-ness got in the way of any relevant interjection. Still the roundtable covered some quite interesting topics, some possibly a little borderline, but still they were challenged.

The Paranormal Roundtable
The Paranormal Roundtable

The roundtable concluded and we all headed for a well deserved drink and the VIP party.

Sunday morning saw my first presentation to the paranormal community, bright and early at 10am. Which was after the late night of the paranormal VIP party. Although some of us were suffering we cracked on into day two with more discussion, presentations and general chat paranormal wise.

My good friend Michael Bryant gave a Trance Mediumship demonstration following my presentation in the main theatre which was very interesting to watch. I have personally seen this amazing style of spiritual communication a few times down in his home town of Swanage at his local the Royal Oak, but this would be the first time I had seen him attempt it away from there.

I caught David Parry’s excellent presentation in the main theatre which from an audience point of view was very engaging; ‘the paranormal is normal’ and learnt a couple of new things during that session too. David also announced the hope that we would be working together in 2015 too, something I am looking forward to. Also, something we need to discuss further David?

David Parry & Ashley Mortimer

Following David Parry I caught Carmen Reed’s presentation in the main theatre, which was an amazing story and not exactly as the film had portrayed. Carmen’s account of the events which occurred to her and her family were shocking and an insight into the darker side of the paranormal. An account which reminds us to approach certain situations with perhaps a different frame of mind. Although many of us have started investigating with the mindset that we were searching for evidence, we may often forget some of the finer details that effect individuals within these situations. We may often forget the very fear that families endure whilst dealing with a manifestation such as Carmen did.

I would also like to say a massive thank you to Carmen for an insight into an area of the paranormal which I find interesting, the lack of vocabulary between individuals that are haunted and the response of the medical sciences to this situation. This includes a lack of after care too. Perhaps that’s something we can change together.

Carmen Reed
Carmen Reed

Richard Felix stepped on to the main stage for the final presentation of Day two and Paracon UK 2014, which was very interesting and packed full of Richard’s energy and passion. I wont go into detail, but I liked the science linked to the Stone Tape Theory. The history was awesome too. Silica eh?

Richard Felix

Matt Hall closed Paracon UK with wise words, thanks and introduced the founders of TroopAid. They advised us of what we were raising money for and it is such a worthy course. Helping these troops as they return from action is imperative to enable them to have the very basic care and items they should indeed be entitled to. I am so glad to have been a part of it all.

Troop Aid


Wounded Warrior Project

As the guests headed home, the vendors packed up their stalls, Matt Hall and his excellent team packed up and Paracon UK began to close down for 2014. However what followed the event itself was an abundance of thanks to Matt and his team, a surge of excitement for the next Paracon UK event and perhaps the glimmer of unity within the community.

Before I head off, I would like to say a personal thank you to all that made Paracon UK possible; Matt Hall, Randy Gus, the US Military Team, The PR Team, the charities, those that donated, those with stalls, Derby Conference centre, the guest speakers, the US guests and of course all those that came. What a fantastic event for the paranormal community and what a future we now have because of it.

I would also like to thank Elizabeth Koert for allowing me to use some of her photo’s in this post. So, here’s one of me, MJ, Uncle Norm and Elizabeth.

Me, MJ, Elizabeth & Uncle Norm


Paracon UK 2014

Paracon UK 2014
Paracon UK 2014

Well it’s been a long time coming for the UK, but finally, thanks to the guys at Serious Paranormal Investigations it looks like we will have our first annual Paranormal Convention.

During the time that I’ve been an investigator I have always tried to reach out to other like minded individuals, investigators and teams in order to share with others my passion for the paranormal. I thoroughly believe in unity with the paranormal field, both in the UK and beyond. Which is another reason why I am looking forward to Paracon as the event organisers are also keen to promote unity in the field.

After speaking with Matt Hall and Michelle Hare (SPI) about Paracon UK and the work they do within the paranormal field I knew that I would like to work with them going forward. In fact I will be working with them on The Metetherial Project (check it out on this site), it should be an interesting Project.

This is where an event like Paracon UK will help us all in the paranormal, from investigators of haunted locations, to those looking for Cryptids, those with their eyes on the skies looking for UFOs and so much more! With a gathering of such interesting and amazing people the conversations alone should be epic!

I am also very excited to announce my own involvement in Paracon UK. I will be there throughout the weekend, but I will also be speaking too. The guys at Paracon have given me a slot and I will be speaking about the ‘Perception of Communication’ with the assistance of a couple of friends.

Right now I don’t wish to give too much away regarding my lecture, but suffice to say I will be looking at how many of us perceive communication with spirit in so many different ways. Then asking if we can really determine which is correct, more effective or indeed fits best with our own belief systems. Understanding more about communication with spirit should lead us into the survival hypothesis.

Paracon UK will have a multitude of guests from the paranormal world whom I’m happy to stand shoulder to shoulder with over the weekend. Its amazing to see so many supporting the two charities which Paracon UK is also raising money for. If you have an interest in the paranormal then this is an event not to be missed.

Please follow the link below in order to purchase tickets for Paracon UK and please spread the word. Let’s get as many people there as possible, after all the more we have the more we can all learn and talk about.

I hope to post more information regarding Paracon UK 2014 during the run up to the event in November. if you have any questions regarding Paracon UK, please contact the guys via their website at

Please show your support for the event, the charities it represents and for unity within the paranormal field by grabbing a ticket and joining us all in November. I look forward to seeing you ther!